In this modern times, its not uncommon for the couple to pay for their own wedding. However the brides family is supposed to bear the major cost of the wedding, typically the father. It is important that you have a wedding budget and agreeing who pays for what, but please use this as a guideline.

The Bride:

Gift for her husband (usually presented on the wedding day)
Wedding ring for her groom
The wedding planner
The gift for her bridesmaids

The Groom:

Wedding and engagement ring for his bride
The wedding license fee
Gifts for Ushers and the best man
Fees for the church where applicable
Gift for his bride
Paying for the all so important Honeymoon

The Bridesmaids and Maid of Honor:

Bridal Shower
Pay for their own outfits and accessorires
Wedding gift for the couple

The Groomsmen and Best Man:

Bachelor Party
Pay for their own outfits
Wedding gift for the couple

The Groom’s Family:

Pre wedding Dinner
Wedding ties and gloves for the groom’s ushers
The brides bouquet
Wedding gifts for the couple

The Bride’s Family:

Announcements and invitations
Wedding Stationery
Bridal gown and accessories
Hosting of the wedding party, this will include the reception, food, music, decorations etc.
Photography and Video
Wedding Car hire
Gift for the couple

Wtih Nigerian weddings, the brides family also pays for most things. However, it is not unusual for the groom or the grooms family to bear most of the cost. It really comes down to who can afford to pay and how much control the couple want at their wedding.

It is important to note that its a wedding and it is paramount that the couple enjoy themselves.

Atunbi can put clients in touch with Nigerian Wedding Planners